You are not the problem.

So we ventured around this giant kitchen, ‘learning’ how to do everything and the amazing dutch kitchen manager, in his blunt dutch way explained something huge. – When I see something wrong I will point it out very bluntly, I’m not making a personal attack, you are not the problem, the problem is the problem […]

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I love Germans

A simple dinner conversation explained everything. iPhone presents. For the last four years I have been living, working and leading Europeans and clashing with them at every turn. They don’t find me funny, I find them opinionated and aggressive, beautiful and powerful but very uncomfortable to be around. I knew it had something to do […]

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forgiveness changes lives.

I treat Gods forgiveness like that stanky dish cloth that doesn’t merely spread the dirt around, it adds to the dirt. Or some kind of dish washer that makes us feel nice for a couple of minutes – the boiling hot sterile water. But then when we get taken out of the washer later, there […]

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