The colour of boys and girls.

There is a difference between being a man, and masculinity. There is also a difference between what a culture has concluded and the truth. I could have a son. Fully man. In all biological ways. And he could be almost completely feminine. He could wear pink, and be sexually attracted to men, and still be […]

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I like being son / brother.

I am a son. As so as I enter my parents house, I stop being a 29 year old, experienced musician, trainer, photographer, adventurer and become their third child. I get fussed over. I get shown the snack cupboard. I get to use their car. My mother makes sure I have a clean towel, and […]

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You are not the problem.

So we ventured around this giant kitchen, ‘learning’ how to do everything and the amazing dutch kitchen manager, in his blunt dutch way explained something huge. – When I see something wrong I will point it out very bluntly, I’m not making a personal attack, you are not the problem, the problem is the problem […]

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His Heart

My brother-in-law once told me, the day he kissed his son and felt Toms skin on his lips was one of the greatest moments of his life.            Intimate,                      special,                       […]

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The kingdom

The kingdom is built wherever you are, maximizing whatever you can do and building for the future. God made us all with value and purpose in mind, and we, have the kingdom inside us. Multiply. Each one of us has a large amount of skill and talent and personality traits that can do powerful things […]

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